Word count:7570
hey this is Leo for actualised org and in this video I'm really excited to be talking about how to have amazing sex as a woman so obviously this version here is for the ladies all right ladies from the guys perspective in this video you're gonna find out what it's like to have amazing amazing amazing sex and what this is gonna do for you in your relationship is that basically it's gonna allow you to own your man's heart if you want a really strong relationship then one of the best ways to get into a man's heart is through his pants because we're extremely dirty sexual men and we want a girl who understands this so the mindsets and principles and practical techniques that you learn in this video are gonna put you in the top 1% if not higher of all women on earth who know how to have sex so you're gonna be the best of the best if you practice what I tell you here this kind of stuff I see very few girls knowing how to do and this is gonna put you in a whole new category whole new class so when a man meets you he's gonna want to keep you are you having trouble having sex with a man and then he doesn't call you back well one of the reasons is because you don't give him amazing sex and amazing sex is a rare commodity these days so why don't we get you up to speed now as a caveat of course these are my own perspectives and opinions other people might have different opinions and some men might not like everything I'm telling you in this video so you're gonna have to go through and practice play around with it experiment and see what works and use the stuff that works and said it doesn't work don't use it but what I'll tell you is that I'm willing to bet that 80% of men maybe even 90% of men that you use this on will absolutely fall in love with you and then those other 10% well they want something else and you'll have to figure that out so what is your job in the bedroom I have a video that's actually similar to this one but it's for men tells men how to have amazing sex and there I say that actually it's mostly the man's responsibility to produce amazing sex in the bedroom because he's the one who's leading and he's known who's dominating and so therefore it's his job to lead in to dominate and therefore he's responsible for like 90% of what goes on in the bedroom but nevertheless there's that 10 or 20% that you as the woman are responsible for and what exactly is this to me it's being feminine being girly being dirty and surrendering in the bedroom this is what your domain is in the bedroom and by the way if you haven't guessed this already we're kind of talking about the this as a dynamic where he's the masculine one you're the feminine one now some people some women are more masculine than some men so you know like I said there's outliers here but we're generally assuming that you're the feminine or in the relationship he's the masculine one if that's the case this is gonna all work really nicely so that's our assumption so your job is that and also your job is to play up his masculinity see amazing sex comes from this polarization that happens he's acting very masculine you're acting very feminine and there's like this charged this energy in the air that happens this excitement this is what makes the most exciting type of sex the most passionate kind of sex so that's generally what you're gonna be doing if you just use those principles right there already you can start coming up with little techniques and tricks in your own mind for how to play up your femininity how to play up his masculinity and that already is basically gonna be the source from which all of those techniques that I give you going forward here are going to come from but before we get into those techniques let's just start with the basic foundation the basic foundation begins even outside the bedroom and really as the woman for you it begins with good nutrition and exercise and the gym this point right here is perhaps the most important point of the whole video if you only do one thing from this entire video that will please your man the most it's this right here good nutrition and exercise especially these days this is so rare and a girl many girls I say over 50% of girls these days are overweight they eat horrible food they have no respect for their body and they have no sense of proper nutrition and they don't go and they don't exercise and basically they just kind of coast on their good looks or on their youth and if this is the case then basically as the man well if you have a quality man he's looking out for his body too and if we're gonna looking out for our body we want you to be looking out for your body quality man is gonna want this because if you're coasting on your good looks right now that's not gonna last forever and as men we're sensitive to this kind of stuff so for example if men are leaving you if men are having sex with you but then aren't staying in a relationship with you it's because they can see that you're not taking care of yourself or you're not meeting some other long-term objectives that they have men are just totally focused on sex we also care about the long-term potential of the relationship and because we do care about sex so much we want that quality sex to last for decades right so if you just do one thing take care of your nutrition and go to the gym that right there will turn your man on the most and if you don't even do anything else but that and you just keep your body in good shape that already will endear you to your man's heart a lot of women have difficulty with this and they think that well I shouldn't have to be a certain way to please the man don't think of it that way think of it as you're improving your own health and your own nutrition and then it's spilling over and you're also satisfying the man right we got to be real here men are extremely visual creatures we just are this is how we're wired we can't help it so when we see a fit beautiful hot woman we want her there's not even like a question in our mind it is instant we just want her so make sure that's you and not somebody else also make sure that you're dressing sexy as a woman this is one of the advantages that you have is that you can take a lot of time to dress nice and men appreciate a well-dressed woman what this means basically I'm not gonna go into the details of this because I'm no expert on dressing you'll figure that out but just the key fundamental points are make sure you're dressing in Nice stylish clothing so new stuff not stuff back from college days or from high school with holes and tatters in it and also make sure that you've developed some sort of sense of style what's your style whatever it is for you something that matches your body type and that matches your personality right just get those two things down and the last point of this basic foundation is hygiene make sure you're cleaning everywhere make sure your body smells nice make sure you shave and make sure you wax well there's nothing worse than an otherwise beautiful girl who doesn't take care of her body it's like a waste and make sure that you take care of everything downstairs so that you smell nice downstairs so that you're shaven or you're waxed or you have a landing strip or whatever but make sure that it's nice and pruned so you don't have some giant Bush down there or some weird fishy smell down there because nothing turns off a man more than that and that should be pretty easy to take care of so that's the foundation now one other point that I want to make kind of about the foundation that was kind of the external foundation here's a point about the internal foundation your psychology the psychology for good sex means that you can't be neurotic and anxious if you're having neuroses and anxiety you're not going to be able to have good sex so there's three things that you really need to fix in your psychology these are kind of like big obstacles to having great sex one is prudishness two is the inability to let go in the bedroom and three is the inability to be present and in the moment so let's briefly talk about each one of these prudishness this means that you have hang-ups about sex you're afraid to be dirty you're afraid to to look at yourself in the mirror or you don't want to look at him or you've got some sort of religious background or your parents were very conservative and they taught you that if you're going to have sex and you're a [ __ ] and select as evil and all this kind of stuff so I'm not gonna go into too much detail about that here but basically you need to cut out all this prudishness cut it out right we don't need to pretend here we're adults it's okay sex is what the most amazing aspects of life there's nothing dirty about it there's nothing evil or sinful about it if you do sex responsibly so the prudishness it's not necessary in fact it's holding you back from some of the greatest experiences in life and it's holding you back from that intimate connection that you really want with your man the more dirty things you share with him the deeper your connection goes because honestly who else you're going to share this dirty stuff with only your intimate partner nobody else so this is like the unique bond that you developed between you and your man the next point is the inability to let go you need to be able to surrender in the bedroom this is the woman's role in the bedroom to surrender this means you need to be able to get outside your head forget about your fears and your stresses from everyday life forget about the kids forget about the problems at work or whatever and be able to let go to surrender to the man so that he can dominate you this is the dynamic in the bedroom so anything that's preventing you from doing this make sure you get that out of the way and also this is the next point but it's really similar very closely related is the inability to be present and in the moment great sex from comes comes from being in the flow totally present not inside your head right not distracted by other things if you're not able to be present you might have difficulty even orgasming which some girls have difficulty with so make sure you have fixed this basic basic basic stuff I'm not even gonna touch on it here maybe I'll have some other videos that will help you with diagnosing and solving each one of these problems but this is really outside the scope of this video what I want to do next though is I want to get you some of these techniques the hot sexy stuff so the first point is study how to give amazing [ __ ] now this is also kind of outside the scope of this video I'm not going to tell you how to have a maze give an amazing [ __ ] I think you could figure that out go watch a tutorial video go read up on it buy a book at a bookstore or talk to your girlfriend's about it or buy a information product I don't I don't care how you do it but figure out how to give amazing [ __ ] most women do not know how to give an amazing [ __ ] in fact they give painful [ __ ] don't let that be you and the way that you learn how to give an amazing [ __ ] is basically through experience and iteration so one thing you can do is you can give a [ __ ] then ask the man what he liked about it or didn't like about it and have him be specific so that he's not just giving you sweet little words of affirmation but actually you ask him hey baby did you like that or do you like this be specific and actually get the technique down right get the technique down because this is one of the gifts that you can give as a woman to your man is giving him an amazing [ __ ] and I find that few women know how to do this well so when we as a man when we find a woman who really knows how to give a great [ __ ] it's she's definitely a keeper she's a rare one you want that to be you the next point is being [ __ ] I want you to be more [ __ ] in the bedroom and even outside the bedroom see one of the problems that men face with women is that women like to play coy all the time we men were very sexual and we're usually pretty open about our sexuality but women it's like they pretend like they're not sexual a lot of times and also just from the man's perspective we go through life chasing women initiating the conversations trying to hit on women all this kind of stuff and we get rejected a lot right and women play coy a lot and it's very frustrating for a man because sometimes our whole story in life is just like I want sex I go look for sex and I can't get it because I'm denied and these women are such hypocrites because we know that behind the scenes these women are having tons of sex but they're pretending like they're not so this whole coy facade break that down for your man I'm not telling you to literally be a [ __ ] and sleep around with everybody what I'm saying is with your man be extra [ __ ] that means want it all want his dick want has come want to be tied up want to have spanking want anal want to have sex outdoors want to do a threesome wanna watch porn with your man want to play with toys like there's so much room to explore in in human sexuality there's so much stuff you can try and do some of it's very tame some of its really far out there now everyone has their own comfort zone I'm not gonna tell you where your comfort zone lies but basically you should be pushing your sexual comfort zone be open to new things and like show this to your man show it to your man that you're open with sex and that you're kind of a dirty girl but for him right we don't want you to sleep it around behind our backs but it's like for us we want you to be extra dirt so don't play coy with your man and you know sometimes just like a very simple way that this can happen is you're just let's say driving in the car now this is an example that I can remember that really turned me on is a girl I was with we were during the day we were driving to Ikea or some place just in the middle of daylight afternoon and I'm driving and what she does is she just kind of playfully takes her her fingers and she puts them on my knee and then she just kind of like walks them up my knee like this towards my crotch just like slowly and she has this little cheeky smile on her face and she was kind of like insinuating she's gonna unzip my pants but she didn't really but like that right there that was that was enough right like that's a rare thing that most girls won't do because she was actually like putting herself out there she was acting a little bit [ __ ] but like it was it was awesome this is exactly what we want as men as we want a girl to be this way the next point that I'm gonna make and this is gonna be a really big point this is kind of like a whole theme so you can remember this theme the theme of being feisty and active in general women are too passive in the bedroom we want you to be more active and more feisty so I've already started talking about this right one way to be feisty I'm gonna give you a whole list here so if you want you're gonna write them down and you can come up with your own ways to be more active and feisty but number one is initiate sex more initiate sex on the man this is hot we like this like I said most women play coy and a lot of women they just won't initiate sex it's like if the man doesn't go and grab you and undress you then you it's like you won't even want sex we don't like that we like you to like come up and rub yourself on us to grab our crotch to squeeze our bi like put your hands on on me that kind of stuff make sure you're doing that some women are just way too passive and this is kind of natural because like in the bedroom your sir and you're playing that more passive role the man it's like dominating you but don't let it get out of hand we don't want you to be so passive that you're like uh a limp fish just laying there and taking it in the bedroom we want you to be active surrender in an active way if that makes any sense use your hands I think your hands can be used very effectively especially because this is this can be done very feminine Lee right like gently caress your man his face his arms his chest his legs his thighs squeeze him be active in that way that's like a subtle way that you can be active use your hands and interesting ways just like I was saying you know with that girl she had this clever approach of just kind of walking her fingers along my along my thigh that was really cool so make sure you're coming up a little techniques like that the next way that you can be really feisty and active is with the vocals vocals turn a man on huge huge huge huge huge huge if if I just record a woman moaning from sex on a tape recorder and then I play it just for a guy who's sitting there working he's in a totally logical headspace he's probably gonna get hard and he's probably gonna start like dripping from his dick so this tells you this turns us on a lot right play it up - play it up make sure you're purring make sure you're purring even when you're outside the bedroom just like when we kiss you or when we touch you kind of purr and moan give this little girly noises that you make those are hot and then of course when he's actually having sex with you and it's getting really hardcore then make sure you're screaming out his name and you're screaming out what you want him to do and all this kind of stuff this is amazing we want this and as men also we've got a lot of ego tied in with the way we have sex so it's almost kind of like you know if we bring a girl home and we bang the [ __ ] out of her all night and she's yelling and screaming our name it's like and then the next day our neighbors our neighbors like wonder was having his place like that that meant that dude is the man he's the man he's got his [ __ ] together like he's awesome right so we have a bit of ego tied in with sex so give that to your man all right scream your lungs out make the neighbors jealous the next point is learn to grind your hips grinding your hips strippers porn stars are really good at this go to a strip club and look at how the stripper uses her hips in this like sensual belly dancing way you can also watch a good porn to see how this is done but don't just lie there in the bed or if you're in doggy style just stick your ass up in the air and then do nothing that's lame sex so what I mean by being feisty is like move your body along with the guy as he's having sex with you right learn to drive your hips back and forth side to side in circles in both directions that's super super super I can't tell you how hot that is that that right there can take sex that's like a 5 on the scale of 5 to 2 1 to 10 sex like mediocre sex out of 5 and like put it to a 10 so you can you can double the quality of a sex just by like grinding your hips in a really sensual way the next point is dirty talk and intimate talk I find that women can be way too passive and shy about talking dirty in the bedroom dirty talk is huge dirty talk can take your sex to a whole new level dirty talk plus intimate talk connected together that can double or triple or quadruple the quality and intensity of your sex this is kind of beyond the scope of this video I'll have another video that talks about how to do more proper dirty talk but just a couple of quick examples what's an example of intimate talk intimate talk is talk that builds a little bond connection between you to intimacy so in sexual context what that might mean is something like you come up to your man and say hey baby I really love you come make love to me something like that it said kind of sweetly and innocently and it's bill that bond and connection for women this is naturally easier than dirty talk I think dirty talks a little bit harder but you should learn how to do dirty talk too so what is dirty talk here's an example hey baby I'm wet come banging my brains out hey baby I'm wet come bang my brains out something like that it's more hardcore think of it as like softcore hardcore right now what you want to do is you want to mix those two together so you've got that intimacy and then you've got that dirty animalistic sex combined together and make sure that you're saying these things to him outside the bedroom during foreplay and then right when he's having sex with you in the bedroom right also when he's having sex with you you should be telling him where you are in your orgasm so if you're coming tell him that you're coming if you're about to come tell him you're about to come if he really turns you on tell him hey baby you turn me on or I really like how you do this right make sure there's like a dialogue don't have silent empty sex silent blank that blank kind of sex where it's just dead silence you two are having sex and both of you are in your minds thinking stuff that's that's not sex that's like a travesty of sex a lot of women screw this point up they don't tell us that they're coming this is a huge mistake than a lot of women make you need to tell the man that you're coming and you need to have like a whole thing you can either turn into a huge deal because as a man we take our pride in being able to make you [ __ ] at least if we're you know experienced in the bedroom and we're sexually knowledge when we want to have great sex then we want this so you're having sex and you're getting close to coming well you should start telling your man that hey I'm starting to come starting to come and start to come and then when you actually start coming you tell him that oh I'm coming I'm coming and you keep saying it in whatever sexy way you want to say it so that we know what's going on first of all this helps us to lead the situation it helps us to know what to be doing at what time because we need to be leading but really it turns us on right when you don't tell a man that you came you're denying him like a huge important chunk of this whole sexual experience because in our minds if you don't tell us we're kind of like so did you come didn't she come was that not good enough we start questioning ourselves don't don't do that your man the next point is lose control of yourself in the bedroom and you can Telegraph this to your man in kind of exaggerated ways so lose control of all the different parts of your body lose control of your hips start kind of moving them and flailing them around lose control of your butt lose control of your legs get weak in the knees throw your head back as though you're having this like orgasmic moment I remember actually that same girl that I'm talking about that was in the car um another coolest thing that she did is when I was kissing her neck she got so so so turned on by didn't she kind of like played it up and kind of exaggerated so when I started kissing her neck she started like moaning and throwing her head back and just like you can tell if she's getting turned on she's going into heat and that's the hottest thing for guys when we see a girl going into heat this is like one of the best metaphors right here so think of yourself as the Cat Academy in heat like in heat who needs to rub her wet dripping [ __ ] on her man like that should be you in the bedroom and everything that comes along with that with that kind of metaphor right losing control of yourself you're surrendering that makes the man want to dominate so so hot some porn stars are really really good at this so you might want to check out some porn and find a couple of porn stars that are really good at playing up this cat and heat metaphor the next thing you should be doing is asking and begging for your man's come the [ __ ] is like the most important part of the sex for the man right blowing our load so you should be asking for it if you're my girl I want to hear you saying that you want my [ __ ] inside you on your face on your chest on your mouth in your mouth everywhere and anywhere right this is we want to make you dirty right so get comfortable with being dirty and want the man's come this is so sexy there's a really big difference between a girl who's kind of like do you have to come on my face or like uh well aren't you just like come over there somewhere like there's that kind of girl or the kind of girl that just doesn't even talk out she just kind of ignores it and wherever the man does it she she's just kinda like oh okay whatever and then the kind of girl who's like a [ __ ] fiend like she lives on come you need to think of come as though it's like your lifeline right like if you don't get to come then you're gonna die that's how I want you to behave in the bedroom so make sure you're enthusiastic and excited about me coming your man coming that's so important I think it should go without saying but I think it does need to be said because I've seen some girls botch this part is that your man needs to come when he's having sex with you I hope you understand this right but if you two are having sex and your man does not blow his load you don't see him blowing his load that means he did not blow his load it's pretty obvious with men we can't hide it as well as you can women so if this is not happening make no mistake your man is extremely extremely extremely frustrated some women can have sex and not orgasm and still be satisfied that is not the case with men our biology is different if we're having sex and we don't come and we cannot come for all sorts of reasons for example condoms sometimes it can be really hard to come with it can be hard to come because if we're with a hot girl and we have anxiety about our size or about getting hard or about performing well or impressing you or whatever we can you know have difficulty have difficulty coming sometimes we try to make you come so much that we kind of hold back our own orgasm and then that makes it difficult for us to finally blow our load so there's all these different aspects to why a man might not be blowing his load you need to be aware of this and you need to monitor this so that if he's having sex with you and he's giving you all the pleasure but then he's having difficulty coming then you need to be patient with him and get him to come by the end of the night so whatever maybe you tell him hey baby let's just take a couple of minutes of a break and we'll get back into it and then actually get back into it or if he's having difficulty getting hard or maybe the condom for example is a problem I know that condom is a real problem for me sometimes then what you do is you say hey baby let me just give you a [ __ ] you give him a [ __ ] take off the condom give him a [ __ ] and make sure he comes or give him a [ __ ] actually with men it's kind of easy so if for some reason he's having difficulty coming while he's having sex with you then just give a [ __ ] or a [ __ ] and make sure it happens right this is so important because if it doesn't happen he's gonna get like blue balls he's gonna be very frustrated he's not gonna have that release right the man needs that release it's so important so all of these things that I just said this whole list of stuff this is all under the umbrella category of being more feisty and active can you see how this works so I want you to take this principle I want you to brainstorm other ways that you can be more feisty and more active that I haven't even thought about here right you're the woman so you should you'll know this stuff when you get in there and start trying it out and experimenting so all the above go ahead and try it out I'm almost confident than 95% of guys will love that stuff just absolutely love it because it's pretty rare to find a girl who can do all of that pretty rare last points I want to make point number one is that be ready for multiple orgasms if you're having sex with a quality man who really knows what he's doing in the bedroom he's gonna want to give you multiple orgasms and sometimes what I see is some girls they just get kind of tired or whatever they feel like oh I got one might want an orgasm and I'm good no you can come a dozen times in the bedroom when I'm with a girl I expect her to want me to make her [ __ ] a dozen times right so be ready for that multiple orgasms second point is want to squirt squirting is super hot if you were the quality man he's gonna want to make you squirt some women are a little shy about it insecure about it but actually I have a whole video how to make a girl squirt which talks about that so I won't go into detail here that teaches a man how to make a girl squirt but if you have some sort of prudishness issues about squirting you haven't done about it you know done it before or you haven't even studied what squirting is go ahead and read up on it get a book on it or whatever watch a video on it and want it with your man squirting is like one of the peak experiences within sex that you two could have it can build a huge intimate bond plus it's super dirty and and sexy so want that I love it when a girl like is asking me to make her squirt when she's excited about it that's super turn-on for me the next point is show gratitude and respect to your man you women you're a lot about love you like to be showered with praise and positive emotions and love us men we're a little bit less about love and we're a bit more about respect because we have big egos this is how we're different than you so a little gratitude and respect goes a long way especially if the man is leading a lot in the relationship and he's doing all this stuff and he's doing all the driving and he's he's doing some shopping and he's having sex with you in the bedroom and he's like putting all this stuff together you know we go to a lot of effort to plan stuff out for you to be the leader in the relationship it's nice when we can see gratitude that you're grateful for that that you appreciate that and also some respect that you pay to your man because you know hanging sex with the girl is hard and tiring work like usually by the end of the of the night we're just like we're sweating we're tired we're exhausting we're barely breathing that's how hard we were working so just like a very simple example of how you might show respect your man is if your man just did a amazing job having sex with you all night and he's just totally exhausted sweating profusely maybe what you want to do is you want to just get up out of the bed go get him a glass of water or go get him a towel to wipe himself off just like a little gesture like that right it's just about that clay that little sense of nurturing that little feminine touch that sense of I respect you I can see that you know you're working hard for this relationship that's a beautiful thing and the last thing I'm gonna say is that some of you women will be watching this video and you'll be thinking leo this all sounds amazing but you're asking me to do all the suggest me to work so hard to be this perfect girl for this man and you might say there's two problems with this number one is that it's not authentically me this is not who I am I'm not this kind of girl number two is that even if I was that kind of girl why the hell should I work so hard for this dead meat deadbeat man that I have I have this man who doesn't even make me [ __ ] once in the bedroom he doesn't even care about making me come leo you're talking about this awesome man who's gonna bang my brains out and and want to make me squirt in all this stuff and give me multiple orgasms but where do I find such a man and you're right these men can be rare but here's the thing you are putting this in the context of personal development right remember this is all personal development I don't see this as just a fun sex video this is to me it's personal development personal development is living up to your full potential self-actualization how do you self actualize well in one way is by mastering the sexuality by taking yourself to the highest potential within sexuality that's what this video is ultimately about so you're not doing this just for the man you're doing it for you first and foremost see it that way see it as expanding yourself expanding your sexuality experimenting growing and it really is that way this is not a some hokey notion also if you have a man who's kind of a deadbeat man in the bedroom who can't give you orgasms or isn't just isn't passionate about this stuff isn't trying to be a connoisseur in the bedroom well I agree with you there are a lot of men who are not good at sex and don't really care about mastering sex and that's something that I'm personally passionate about changing right I shoot videos for men on how to have sex and I want to convince them that squirting is amazing giving multiple orgasms is amazing I'll teach them a lot of amazing techniques and what I find is that men are receptive to this stuff right it's just it takes them a while to to get up to speed and sometimes they feel like well if I need to be told how to have sex it's kind of like you know their egos in it and so they don't want to be told they feel like they already know how to have sex so then you need to humble themselves a bit before they actually learn so let me work on the men for you and I'll try to create more men that are more responsible in the bedroom and give you orgasms all that stuff as far as what you're gonna do though you're gonna think about it like this you're growing yourself into the ideal sexual girl you're opening up your sexuality if your current man isn't accepting of that that's okay you're still gonna grow don't hold yourself back on his account what's gonna happen is that either a couple things are gonna happen one is that he's gonna see that you're growing sexually that you're putting so much energy and attention into being more sexual that he's gonna get the message in his mind is gonna be like oh maybe I should learn how to have better sex too and then you two can actually do it together and that could be like a growth experience that can be really fun so you just might have you might be the leader in this way and get him to get more involved with quality sex of course some men they won't do it they just don't want to change they're stuck in their ways in which case you still want to grow because even if you're frustrated now you know what this man you're with chances are you probably won't be with him for long especially if he's bad in the bedroom so the next man you're gonna be with well you want to prepare for him the chance that you're gonna stay with your man for the rest of your life those are pretty small chances chances are you gonna have many more men in your future and that's okay and what you want to do is you want to develop yourself higher so that the next man that you find is also going to be on a higher level when you become a connoisseur of sex when you master sex you're going to be on the lookout and you're gonna attract other men who Matt who have mastered sex to when you have not mastered sex then you're gonna attract men who have not mastered sex so I think it's really important that you take this seriously that you you study it buy some books don't be shy about it watch some videos don't be shy about it buy toys buy porn research this stuff study this stuff you can buy even information products on this stuff you can even go take a seminar a whole weekend workshop on this stuff right so it's just all about seeing why this is important seeing that it's not just about sex it's really about taking yourself to a higher level put this in the context of your personal development all right well that was a lot of information a lot of techniques and they're very practical stuff that you can go implement right now today what I recommend you do is you implement one thing at a time and experiment and just see how your guy reacts to it what you're gonna probably find is that he's gonna react really really well and then over time over the course of six months or let's say 12 months you should envision yourself becoming this sexual goddess right and it doesn't take a lot of sex to become a sexual goddess the problem is that most people they have sex but they're not learning anything in between and therefore they have sex in a more improve what you want to do you want to have sex then the next day go read a book about sex then the next day have more sex now you're improving applying the stuff you read in the book then the next day maybe watch a video then have some more sex again you're improving and work on little aspects right get the [ __ ] down improve grinding your hips improve moaning and screaming improve your dirty talk and prove squirting and all this stuff you can improve every single one of these areas and by the end of like 12 months if you do this actively you're gonna be at a whole new level and the kind of men that you'll be able to attract and keep it's gonna really really change because like I said the way to a man's heart is through his pants all right this is Leo I'm signing off go ahead post me a comments down below click the like button share this video with a friend and finally come sign up to my newsletter right here at actualize that already it's a free newsletter I release new videos on self actualization topics every single week I'm excited to be doing more videos in the future about sexual topics because I think this is an important component of personal development it's been a really satisfying part in my life to improve the quality of my sex and I'm still excited to continue doing that in the future there's still a lot of stuff that I haven't tried that I'm excited to try with the right girl so if you're interested in any of that or you're just interested in more general personal development topics or how to improve your relationship that kind of stuff well I'm all about giving you the psychology mind sets you need to master all these different areas in your life and ultimately live up to your full potential so sign up for that right now you